Comments on: Dear Sperm Donor https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/ ...what you wish you could say but know you never will... Sun, 27 Jul 2014 07:45:03 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.0.24 By: cindy https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-2333 Wed, 12 Mar 2014 02:43:59 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-2333 this took me twice to read and i am so sorry for your pain and sorrow. ]]> By: admin https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-2327 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 05:59:29 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-2327 The writer of the letter actually IS in the process of prosecuting David at this time. The DA in the county where this happened has handed it over to the DA where the kids live now, and both children are now adults and are both banding together to file against the perpetrator/defendant. We don’t have to say ‘alleged’ since David singed a confession–it’s not alleged. So now, we wait while it goes through the process. David is going to be quite surprised when he gets served process… I’m sure by now he thought he was safe. ]]> By: Furious https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-2303 Mon, 23 Jul 2012 16:44:13 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-2303 Please… God PLEASE tell me that your daughter prosecuted….
This is my biggest fear with my children. I have both a boy and girl. I thank the Lord that my husband is of SANE mind. However there are so many other SICK, perverted, disgusting, souless bastards like “David”.. I pray for your healing and the healing of your children.. ]]> By: Myrtle https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-2290 Fri, 20 Jul 2012 09:05:55 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-2290 Anonymous August 3, 2010 You did the right thing. I wpuild have done the same and even more than that. I would ahve slpeapd his face with my id.He deserves it for not only being stupid but irresponsible.Don’t ever feel guilty for such persons.And I will not aologize. He should know better. ]]> By: A's Mom https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-1006 Wed, 01 Apr 2009 07:44:04 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-1006 *Correction to the above comment. If I had TRIED to kill him and he lived…instead of what I wrote. (Sorry for the typo, but it is hard to talk about….without getting very angry and upset.) ]]> By: A's Mom https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-1005 Wed, 01 Apr 2009 07:41:53 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-1005 I know what you have been through, I’ve been there when my ex-husband messed with my daughter several times over the years when I was at work. She has anger issues and, of course, I didn’t know. I was working while he was being a lazy bum. Always out of work because of his attitude.

I know what it is like to say I would kill the SOB. In fact, I was going to do just that, until my daughter he molested begged me not to. And when I went out the door after him, she begged and begged. She said it wasn’t worth me going to jail for the rest of my life, leaving the other kids without, at least, one good parent.

She is right, in fact, they didn’t do a thing to my (then) husband even after the reports because they told her she would have to get up in front of public court and tell what he did to her. (if I had killed him and he lived, I would have went to jail and he would have got the kids.) Anyways, they said if she couldn’t go public in court, then they couldn’t do anything to him. So she kept it to herself, so everyone in our town didn’t know what happened to her. She and I both carry guilt. Her because of what he did to her and not being free from the shame he put on her and me because I wasn’t able to protect my daughter from him. And my guilt to the fact that I chose to live my life with an animal I thought I knew and could trust.

You are in my heart. Just take it one day at a time.

]]> By: Jennifer Wright https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-1004 Mon, 16 Mar 2009 18:02:36 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-1004 It took me a while to figure out exactly what to respond to in regard to this letter. After wiping my tears and choking down the lump in my throat, I now know what I want to say.

I believe that this is the meaning of unsent letters. This letter, because of the anger and emotion, makes us all more aware of the people around us.

It can be anyone!

When I was first married I used to worry about my huband giving the kids a bath or dressing them, even leaving them alone with him. I wondered if I was a bad person for wondering this. but NO, I was and am a good mom for wondering, for being aware, and for looking for the signs. sometimes it will get passed us. But I believe that its people who are strong enough to let others know and to confront that person, that are helping others prevent such things from happening.

I want to rip that mans throat out for hurting those kids, how dare he!! Thats how I feel about it. Thankyou for sharing this with us.

]]> By: Heather Grenier https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-1003 Mon, 16 Mar 2009 15:21:05 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-1003 My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.

Now I have to go dry my eyes and wash my face. This was truly emotional. Thank you for sharing it.

]]> By: Rissa https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-1002 Sun, 15 Mar 2009 20:04:00 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-1002 Oh God, that bastard deserves so much worse than what he got. I am angry that he didn’t serve jail time. I think this is a much much worse crime than any murder.

The fires of hell are burning bright for him. I can’t wait for him to join them.

Your poor family. Your kids are blessed to have you. You believed them without question and protected them for any further pain or harm.

My prayers are with you.

]]> By: Angel https://ourunsentletters.com/dear-sperm-donor/#comment-1001 Sun, 15 Mar 2009 17:57:57 +0000 https://ourunsentletters.com/blog/?p=97#comment-1001 Very powerful letter. I hope your children find the peace they need and deserve.

I am a very gentle, loving person by nature, but if someone did this to my son I’d probably be with Justice and kill the bastard!

Y’all stay strong and hold to one another. I know you’ll get through this together!

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