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		<title>Comment on Letter to Humanity by nathan</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2011/06/28/letter-to-humanity/#comment-2186</link>
		<dc:creator>nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2012 01:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen. We need to stop being so irresponsible. The earth is NOT your trash can.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen. We need to stop being so irresponsible. The earth is NOT your trash can.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sita&#8217;s Letter to Her Unborn Daughter, Chandra Ghosh Jain by quek_suan_shiau</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2010/02/09/sitas-letter-to-her-unborn-daughter-chandra-ghosh-jain/#comment-2184</link>
		<dc:creator>quek_suan_shiau</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 01:38:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for  your very long and touchng story.  We don&#039;t know leh, Sandy shrugs her shoulders, Ankit says hah, hope you write more stories, Nabilah, shakes her head and smiles nicely, she has a nice smile, Aisyah, looking forward to reading more of your stories, Sarah who is talking to Tara, Say what? Nice story..can already lah the class laughs..hope your baby is fine and you are well all thebest from class 1 E 4, Singapore</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for  your very long and touchng story.  We don&#8217;t know leh, Sandy shrugs her shoulders, Ankit says hah, hope you write more stories, Nabilah, shakes her head and smiles nicely, she has a nice smile, Aisyah, looking forward to reading more of your stories, Sarah who is talking to Tara, Say what? Nice story..can already lah the class laughs..hope your baby is fine and you are well all thebest from class 1 E 4, Singapore</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dear Birth Mother of My Daughter, by Laurie Darroch-Meekis by LaurieDM</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2009/05/11/dear-birth-mother-of-my-daughter-by-laurie-darroch-meekis/#comment-2175</link>
		<dc:creator>LaurieDM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 00:28:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sam,such anger.You misread.This was meant lovingly. I was saying was what I felt, and knowing how I would have felt in the same situation,sorrow at giving up a child, confusion, which she did too. I was not saying I was mad at her, I said at fleeting moments that anger crosses my mind because of my protective nature and the intense love for my child. These are thoughts that run through many adoptive parents minds. Amy, I actually DO know what her reasons were. She was neither a young teenager or a rape victim. I was not telling her how she felt. I was acknowledging the confusion and pain and thanking her, but she could have kept her. I was thanking her for making the decision to try and give my daughter a better life than she could give her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sam,such anger.You misread.This was meant lovingly. I was saying was what I felt, and knowing how I would have felt in the same situation,sorrow at giving up a child, confusion, which she did too. I was not saying I was mad at her, I said at fleeting moments that anger crosses my mind because of my protective nature and the intense love for my child. These are thoughts that run through many adoptive parents minds. Amy, I actually DO know what her reasons were. She was neither a young teenager or a rape victim. I was not telling her how she felt. I was acknowledging the confusion and pain and thanking her, but she could have kept her. I was thanking her for making the decision to try and give my daughter a better life than she could give her.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dear Ex-Fill-In-the-Blank, by Me by Mayatot</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2011/06/20/dear-ex-fill-in-the-blank-by-me/#comment-2169</link>
		<dc:creator>Mayatot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 15:18:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe, u nid a closure and acceptance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe, u nid a closure and acceptance.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dear Alcohol: By Miranda Myers by Erin Boatkicker</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2011/06/24/dear-alcohol-by-miranda-myers/#comment-2128</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin Boatkicker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 15:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My mother is an alcoholic, coincidentally right around nine months sober as well. It&#039;s nice to see the other side. I love my mother, and I can&#039;t stand her, and I&#039;m afraid for and of her. It&#039;s nice, for me at least, to see the other side.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mother is an alcoholic, coincidentally right around nine months sober as well. It&#8217;s nice to see the other side. I love my mother, and I can&#8217;t stand her, and I&#8217;m afraid for and of her. It&#8217;s nice, for me at least, to see the other side.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Didn&#8217;t Know Any Better, by Amanda Barnes by Miriam Pia</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2011/06/23/i-didnt-know-any-better-by-amanda-barnes/#comment-2127</link>
		<dc:creator>Miriam Pia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 14:06:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I was a child I was taught &quot;Pets require responsibility&quot;.  I guess you &quot;should have&quot; taken your furry friend to the pound rather than just abandoning the animal.  I have had pets and am aware that there is legitimate fear surrounding being able to afford to take good care of one.  It sounds like you were a good friend to it until the abandonment.  I don&#039;t know why you reacted that way.  I guess you&#039;re not a Catholic; if you were a good Catholic you would have confessed this years ago and been forgiven.  Remember, forgiveness doesn&#039;t mean &#039;its ok that you did&#039;, forgiveness means - Neither I nor you nor God needs to ruin the rest of your life as a chronic punishment for your sin.  Maybe donate to charity or something as well as being a good pet owner now, as penance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was a child I was taught &#8220;Pets require responsibility&#8221;.  I guess you &#8220;should have&#8221; taken your furry friend to the pound rather than just abandoning the animal.  I have had pets and am aware that there is legitimate fear surrounding being able to afford to take good care of one.  It sounds like you were a good friend to it until the abandonment.  I don&#8217;t know why you reacted that way.  I guess you&#8217;re not a Catholic; if you were a good Catholic you would have confessed this years ago and been forgiven.  Remember, forgiveness doesn&#8217;t mean &#8216;its ok that you did&#8217;, forgiveness means &#8211; Neither I nor you nor God needs to ruin the rest of your life as a chronic punishment for your sin.  Maybe donate to charity or something as well as being a good pet owner now, as penance.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Wish I Could Tell You, by Martha Conners (A Pen Name) by Miriam Pia</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2011/06/22/wish-i-could-tell-you-by-martha-conners-a-pen-name/#comment-2126</link>
		<dc:creator>Miriam Pia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 13:59:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my God.  It is as much your ex boyfriend&#039;s fault that he got you pregnant as it yours that you got pregnant.  It is horribly wrong that his family was demonic, totally evil to you about it - they were mean and wrong about you and slandered you, and ignorant and mean: that&#039;s what I meant by &#039;demonic and evil&#039;: I mean: ignorant and wrong and cruel to you.  

It is true that the letter you wrote and the ways that you deceived the ex that there actually is a child of his out there even though you miscarried is immoral and wrong.  Its good that you are aware of that and have written this apology.

It reads as if having the miscarriage may have been &#039;a painful mercy&#039; but maybe it wasn&#039;t, maybe its just another sad fact.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my God.  It is as much your ex boyfriend&#8217;s fault that he got you pregnant as it yours that you got pregnant.  It is horribly wrong that his family was demonic, totally evil to you about it &#8211; they were mean and wrong about you and slandered you, and ignorant and mean: that&#8217;s what I meant by &#8216;demonic and evil&#8217;: I mean: ignorant and wrong and cruel to you.  </p>
<p>It is true that the letter you wrote and the ways that you deceived the ex that there actually is a child of his out there even though you miscarried is immoral and wrong.  Its good that you are aware of that and have written this apology.</p>
<p>It reads as if having the miscarriage may have been &#8216;a painful mercy&#8217; but maybe it wasn&#8217;t, maybe its just another sad fact.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dear Alcohol: By Miranda Myers by Donna Thacker</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2011/06/24/dear-alcohol-by-miranda-myers/#comment-2125</link>
		<dc:creator>Donna Thacker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 21:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a powerful letter! I hope many, many people read this. I wish you the best on your one day at a time journey.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a powerful letter! I hope many, many people read this. I wish you the best on your one day at a time journey.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dear Alcohol: By Miranda Myers by Cindy</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2011/06/24/dear-alcohol-by-miranda-myers/#comment-2124</link>
		<dc:creator>Cindy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 21:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you, Miranda, for this very powerful letter. I think there are a lot of fathers out there that this should be shared with. Mine never made it to 9 months sober...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Miranda, for this very powerful letter. I think there are a lot of fathers out there that this should be shared with. Mine never made it to 9 months sober&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Didn&#8217;t Know Any Better, by Amanda Barnes by Deborah D</title>
		<link>http://ourunsentletters.com/2011/06/23/i-didnt-know-any-better-by-amanda-barnes/#comment-2123</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborah D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2011 22:28:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had a hard time with this but I can honestly say I&#039;m glad that, despite it being the wrong choice, you are honest enough to admit to what you did and feel remorse. There are so many out there who would do something like that for fun - not out of desperation. Sending lots of positive, healing energy your way. I hope you do see your furry friend on the rainbow bridge someday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a hard time with this but I can honestly say I&#8217;m glad that, despite it being the wrong choice, you are honest enough to admit to what you did and feel remorse. There are so many out there who would do something like that for fun &#8211; not out of desperation. Sending lots of positive, healing energy your way. I hope you do see your furry friend on the rainbow bridge someday.</p>
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